It was said in the bible those who are not married mind the things of the spirit, but to the married as a wife your number 1 desire is how you can please your husband, your husband is like your god (small god) on this heart as Jesus Christ is the head of the church permit me to use that, also He (GOD) has given you a man to be the head over you and you to submit to him. When you submit to your husband you willing his heart, you dominate him indirectly. Here are some keys I thought will help us have a good home
1. Total Submission - This does not mean foolishness, even in your submission you use wisdom not to be rude.
2. Sex - Do you know that men prefer sex than food, men been the way God created them move by what they see, reason why something that will not move you as a woman move them. my advice to every married woman is to try and satisfy your husband sexually anywhere your husband want it give it to him, it may not necessary be your bedroom, it may be in the kitchen, your sitting room or anywhere around your home. another thing for some people with grown up kids try and modify a sexual language that you can use to talk to yourself anytime your kids are around e.g somebody once said that anytime the husband said "can I have some Ice Cream" she understands what it means.
3. Good Food - Most of us women sorry to say this does not know how to cook good food. As a woman or as a wife we should learn to cook different dishes that will arouse our husband appetite. Let me use myself as an example I am a yoruba person got married to a delta man I took it as a responsibility to learn how to cook some of the delta Ibo soup I could remember the very day I cook "Ofe Owerri" my husband almost bite his tongue and since then I have be trying different dishes. I don't bug him with what I grew with.
4. Understanding - Understanding is bedrock for happy home, when you understand your spouse there we not be a misunderstanding often, remember it takes two to tangle, When your spouse is angry is not the right time for you to proof a point as a woman you must learn to be patience, remember a good woman build our home, so let us be a home builder.
This is just my own little point your comment is highly welcome. Please advice us as a woman will need a happy home.
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